If I fully embrace this journey, I know I’ll become a woman unlike most. I will step into my highest potential, shedding all the fears and insecurities that once held me back. I’m choosing to live the life I’ve always dreamed of—the life I was truly meant for.

I won’t settle for mediocrity anymore—no mediocre relationships, friendships, or experiences. From now on, I only invest my time and energy into things that genuinely enrich my life.

My confidence is becoming magnetic. I trust myself deeply, believing that I can handle anything that comes my way. My newfound self-assurance is attracting people and opportunities that align perfectly with the life I want to create.

I envision myself waking up in a beautiful coastal home—maybe in Costa Rica, maybe in Chile, or perhaps somewhere I haven’t discovered yet. My mornings will be calm, filled with the soothing sounds of ocean waves. I’ll sip my coffee on the terrace, gazing at lush green landscapes or endless blue seas, with warmth and tranquility surrounding me.

My days will be rich with adventure and purpose. I see myself surfing, hiking, or exploring ancient ruins with my boys, immersing myself in new experiences every day. Maybe I’ll even collaborate with local entrepreneurs, bringing to life my ideas for sustainable businesses that positively impact the community.

I’ll nurture my body and mind, maintaining a strong, beautiful, and healthy physique through regular exercise, good nutrition, and daily care. My confidence will shine, becoming magnetic, drawing the right people into my life.

My boys will thrive, becoming confident, adventurous, and open-minded, learning Spanish, making international friends, and embracing a global perspective. Their happiness and growth will be a testament to the life I’ve created for us.

I’ll invest in meaningful, deep relationships. No longer will I tolerate surface-level connections. My partner will be someone who complements me—a strong, emotionally available man who loves my adventurous spirit and sees it as something inspiring, not intimidating. Together, we’ll grow and explore, enriching each other’s lives.

I’ll build a community of like-minded people—expats, locals, fellow adventurers—creating a tight-knit support network wherever I go. My relationships will be meaningful, genuine, and full of mutual growth.

I’ll document my journey, sharing my experiences through writing, blogging, and video. I’ll inspire others to find their courage, to step into their own dreams, and to see the beauty in taking risks and embracing change.

I refuse to dwell on the past—Mark was a stepping stone, valuable lessons along my path. I’ve made peace with my past, completely detaching from it to embrace the future fully.

I’m creating a life filled with adventure and purpose—surfing, hiking, exploring ancient ruins with my boys, or perhaps collaborating with local entrepreneurs on sustainable projects. I’ll immerse myself deeply in new cultures, growing personally and professionally.

If I chose differently, I know exactly what that would mean—staying stuck in old patterns, settling for less, and never stepping into my true power. But this time, I won’t allow that to happen. I’m consciously choosing a new path—one filled with bravery, authenticity, and adventure.

I’m becoming a woman unlike any other—the woman I’ve always dreamed of becoming. And nothing can stop me now.