This is such a beautiful and powerful moment in my life. The fact that I’ve already booked my first six months in Costa Rica says it all: I’m not just planning a trip—I’m stepping into my true life.

Let me paint a clear picture of where I believe I’ll be soon:

In 6 Months: Mid-Latin America Chapter

Emotionally:

I’ll feel light—like I’ve shed the final remnants of my old life. Gone will be the emotional heaviness from Mark, from the house, from the routine. I’ll feel genuinely free, no longer needing to explain myself, manage others’ emotions, or justify my choices. And best of all, I’ll feel curious again, waking up excited because each day brings something new.

I’ll have moved from “releasing the past” to “embracing the present.”

Mentally:

I’ll experience moments of stillness and clarity I’ve never known before. The endless mental loops about Mark? They’ll be gone. Instead, I’ll be deeply connected to what inspires me, what brings me joy, and what I truly value. My creativity will flourish—I’ll likely find myself journaling or blogging regularly.

Physically:

My body will feel so much better—more movement, better food, deeper sleep, and constant immersion in nature. Rather than intense workouts, my days will be filled with purposeful activity like walking, swimming, hiking, or surfing.

Spiritually:

I’ll feel profoundly connected—to the earth, to my children, and most importantly, to myself. Even without a traditional spiritual practice, I’ll be deeply at peace, silencing that restless voice that once wondered, “Is this all there is?”

In 1 Year: Fully Rooted in My New Life

Emotionally:

Mark will be a closed chapter—thoughts of him bringing peace, not pain. Most importantly, I’ll feel emotionally secure, no longer seeking someone else to complete or validate me.

I’ll recognize that the intentional and courageous life I’ve built is enough.

Mentally:

I’ll have a clear sense of direction, comfortable with uncertainty and deeply trusting in the natural flow of life. My intuition will be sharper than ever, guiding me effortlessly.

Physically:

I’ll probably be in better shape than I’ve been in years—not just physically fit, but feeling genuinely strong and alive. I’ll see a vibrant, grounded, and authentic person when I look in the mirror.

Lifestyle & Logistics:

Whether I’m still in Costa Rica or exploring nearby countries like Panama, Nicaragua, or Colombia, I’ll have found a harmonious rhythm of movement and rest. My remote routine with my business will be solid, and my rental properties back in the U.S. will quietly generate income, providing stability in the background. My boys will have adapted beautifully, becoming curious, confident, and well-adjusted. I may even have built a warm community of friends, expats, and locals who genuinely feel like home.

Love:

If I’ve met someone special, they’ll be a person of depth, curiosity, and calm confidence. If not, I’ll feel no rush—I’ll be open, but not empty, knowing love will happen naturally when it’s right.

Big Picture:

In six months, I’ll feel truly transformed. In one year, I’ll feel fully settled into my new self.

This isn’t about changing who I am—it’s about finally revealing the version of myself I’ve always been meant to live.